Waiting until marriage refers to the decision to abstain from sexual activity until after getting married. This choice is often made for religious, moral, or personal reasons. It is a valid choice, and it is important for individuals to make decisions about their sexuality that align with their values and beliefs. It is also important for individuals to communicate openly with their partner about their sexual preferences and boundaries.
In Family Secrets, book 1, Marie decides to communicate her secret to Kareem; she is still a virgin. She was embarrassed, having never admitted it before, to anyone, but not ashamed. She promised God she would wait for marriage.
Nowadays, you’d be hard pressed to find a woman past 35 years old who is still a virgin. The great thing is that there was no pressure for her to perform and her suitor, Kareem was pleased to be in the company of a God-fearing woman.